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The Angel Book
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How is the Gabriel Project
Implemented in the Parish |
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Introduction |
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Permission From Your Pastor |
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Introduction To Parish - Gabriel
Sunday |
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The Sign Of Life And Other Necessary
Materials |
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Angel
Training |
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Finances |
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Monthly Support Meetings |
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Major Catholic Support Services |
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The
Michael's |
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Help
From The Parish |
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Stewardship |
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Transportation |
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Commitment |
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Commissioning Of Volunteers And
Angels |
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Introduction |
One person, the Gabriel Project Coordinator, with a few volunteers will
accept the task of getting the Gabriel Project started. After attending
the Gabriel Project Training, they will form the parish Gabriel Project.
It will take persistence and commitment for some time to get an active
Gabriel Project firmly in place, but with reliance on God’s help, it
will happen.
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Permission From Your Pastor |
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Present the Gabriel Project to your pastor and seek his approval to
proceed. Inform the parish council and / or finance council about
the Gabriel Project. The Archdiocesan Gabriel Coordinator should be
contacted for information and training.
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Introduction To Parish - Gabriel
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Meet with your pastor to plan how the Gabriel Project will be
presented to the parish. It is essential the whole parish know about
the Gabriel Project.
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Pick a Sunday with readings
which tie in with the Gabriel Project. October, which is
Respect Life Month, January, March 25 the feast of the
Annunciation, and/or May are good times to introduce the Gabriel
Project.
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The Sunday before insert a flyer
in the bulletin preparing the congregation for Gabriel Sunday.
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On Gabriel Sunday, have someone
speak at all the Masses about the Gabriel Project. The speaker
may be the pastor or someone who is involved with the Gabriel
Project and is a good spokesperson
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Include the Gabriel Project in
the prayers of the faithful.
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Brochures with volunteer sign-up
cards are made available in the pews or at a table near the
entrance of the church where parishioners can sign up to
volunteer or donate money if they desire. During the
presentation, draw these materials to the attention of the
congregation.
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Ask the congregation to pray
about the area of work God is calling them to do with the
Gabriel Project. Request the prayerful support of the entire
parish for the Gabriel Project.
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On Gabriel Sunday or at another
designated time, the pastor can bless the parish’s Sign of
Life.
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The Sign Of Life And Other Necessary
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The Sign of Life is a. 4' x 6' wooden freestanding sign with a
message and image of the Madonna of the Streets in English and
Spanish. The sign serves as a witness to the entire community and
advertises the church’s willingness to help a pregnant mother in
need. The following materials are available through the Respect
Life Office
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The Sign of Life (Gabriel
Project Resource Manual)
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Mother and Baby Books (Gabriel
Project Resource Manual)
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Cards, Brochures and Posters
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Each Angel receives an Angel
Book and a Gabriel Manual at training
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Angel
Training |
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A list of volunteers is gathered. All Gabriel Angels must attend an
Archdiocesan sponsored training at the parish or at the Diocese
before seeing Mom. This is imperative. The Angels must also obtain
continuing Education at the regularly Scheduled Gabriel Project
Workshops at the Diocese. The Archdiocesan Respect Life Office
provides training regularly and all training materials.
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Finances |
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The Gabriel Project will not be a financial burden on the parish,
but it is important to let the pastor and finance council know of
the financial needs of the Gabriel Project parishes.
All monies donated to the Gabriel Project must be deposited in a
separate account to which the Gabriel Coordinator has access.
- The main expense is the Sign of Life paid for by the parish
- The materials and training are provided by the Respect Life Office
- All the work of the Gabriel Project is done by volunteers
- Fundraising is optional but people generously give when asked
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Monthly Support Meetings |
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Plan a monthly meeting so that all the volunteers can get together
and keep in close contact with one another for support,
encouragement, accountability, spiritual enrichment, and continuing
education. Use this time wisely and fruitfully. After each meeting
everyone must leave with a new idea, new knowledge, and new
inspiration or renewed motivation to continue as an Angel.
Start each meeting in the presence of God. Plan to get together for
a special Mass, the Rosary or Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament,
before your meetings. Each parish Gabriel Project must have a
coordinator and volunteers to do different tasks within the Gabriel
Project. Each parish Gabriel Project will be unique in its
character because of differences in resources available, number of
volunteers, and demographics within the community. Practical
Guidelines for running meetings in Gabriel Resource Manual.
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Major Catholic Support Services |
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The Gabriel Project works in collaboration with other parish and
Archdiocesan Agencies to provide the best of care, mostly free, for
Mom.
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Pre-Natal, Delivery and
Post-Natal Care By law, each Hospital must provide
charitable services to indigent patients to be eligible for
Government Monies. This includes Catholic hospitals. (Gabriel
Project Resource Manual)
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Ideally, Mom should be cared for
throughout her pregnancy by a Catholic Health Care Provider.
If she must attend the Public or non-Catholic Health care
Systems, she is very likely to be offered Sterilization,
Contraception, Depo-Provera or IUD's. Abortion may also be
offered, particularly if there is fetal malformation or
disease. See how the Angel can protect Mom. (Gabriel Project
Resource Manual)
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Mother & Baby Assistance
for the Gabriel Project. Parish baby showers collect supplies
for Mothers & Babies in need. Organize a Baby Shower or Bassinet
Sunday, on Mother's Day, in October, or some other time. MAKE
IT AN ANNUAL EVENT. (Gabriel Project Resource Manual)
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Project Rachel is the outreach to women (and men) who
have had an abortion or been involved in an abortion decision,
offering confidential care, counseling, reconciliation and
healing. (Gabriel Project Resource Manual)
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Society of St. Vincent de Paul provides person to person
services to individuals in need, giving emergency assistance
with food, clothing, rent and utilities. (Gabriel Project
Resource Manual)
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Fertility Awareness and Natural Family Planning, is
offered through the Family Life Ministry or other Archdiocesan
Agency to help couples understand the gift of their own
fertility when planning their families. (Gabriel Project
Resource Manual)
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Parish Social Ministry, usually an outreach of Catholic
Charities, provides professional social service at the parish
and helps Gabriel Moms obtain their benefits including Medicaid,
WIC, etc. (Gabriel Manuel Project Resource Manual)
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Catholic Charities, among its many services usually has:
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Services to Pregnant Adolescents and their families.
These services are particularly helpful when working with minor children who are
pregnant. (under 18 yrs), where medical, psychological and legal difficulties
require professional help.
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Adoption, foster care, and post adoption services All
adoptions must go through a reputable Catholic adoption agency if possible.
Catholic Charities will work with the local Gabriel Project in providing
workshops on this and other topics. NEVER ARRANGE A PRIVATE ADOPTION FROM THE
GABRIEL PROJECT.
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The Michael's |
The Michaels are a group of men in the parish committed to helping
Mom by supporting the Gabriel Angels. A woman volunteer should
always accompany a Michael. All requests for Michael support are
channeled through the Michael coordinator who maintains a roster of
men available for:
- meeting with the father-to-be or, in his absence, with the mother-to-be or both
as a mentor,
- transportation to an appointment or other places with proof of up to date
liability insurance,
- auto & household repairs,
- financial advice,
- assistance in finding employment, and
- giving masculine example and help.
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Help
From The Parish |
Many parish volunteers and organizations want to help the Gabriel
Project. Suggested tasks for these volunteers are:
- organizing the Annual Parish Baby Shower, collecting maternity and baby items or
shopping for baby items at garage sales
- transportation to and from doctor’s appointments, (Some volunteers may want to
reserve a day or morning once a week to take women to their destination.
Company is very important as Mom may feel pressured to abort or contracept by
the Medical Service.)
- child care
- income tax preparation
- car and appliance repair
- meal preparation
- fundraising
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Stewardship |
You may get more items donated then you need at a particular time.
Through parish donations, baby showers and bassinet Sundays the
parish Gabriel Project will receive maternity clothes, baby clothes
and baby items. Keep an inventory of items available. Items
need to be culled for usability and safety especially items for a
baby. Make sure they are in good repair, clean and usable.
Baby cribs and car seats are of special concern and must meet
federal standards. Are they safe for a small child?
Someone who has storage space and time to keep track of items may
want to be in charge in this area. A clean and secure place to
store the items with easy access for angels will be important. Some
Diocese use commercial storage facilities. All items must be
given freely to Mom with no strings attached just as they have been
donated to the Gabriel Project. However, as there is always a
shortage of car seats and cribs, they can be lent to Mom. All
items collected at each parish must be available as needed to other
parish Gabriel Projects in the diocese.
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Transportation |
From time to time, Moms may need transportation to an appointment or
other place. Before an Angel or Volunteer transports Mom in their
vehicle, they must be able to show proof of up-to-date liability
insurance.
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Commitment |
A Gabriel Angel is committed to
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replying to Mom promptly
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checking up on her regularly
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praying for her daily
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arranging for services and responses to needs
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keeping all communications and information confidential
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be available when Mom needs a listening ear
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communicating with the parish coordinator
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attending support meetings
If an Angel is going on vacation, is overwhelmed with a family
situation or for some reason cannot be available as an Angel, she
must notify the parish Gabriel Project Coordinator that she is
temporarily unable to fulfill her commitment.
The Gabriel Project Coordinator is committed to
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knowing all the angels
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matching each Mom with an angel
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communicating training, meeting times and workshop times
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communicating with the pastor
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encouraging collaborative ministry
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following up with angels concerning the Moms they are helping
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mailing in the Confidential Intake Forms
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Commissioning Of Volunteers And
Angels |
When Once you have volunteers committed and angels trained they must
be recognized in front of the church community with a commissioning
ceremony during Mass. (Gabriel Project Resource Manual)
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